Stop asking what you want and start asking what you have to offer.
Comparison is the thief of joy.
Stop asking what you want and start asking what you have to offer.
Comparison is the thief of joy.
…that you have the power to do.
Get your work done. If that doesn’t work, shut up and drink your gin.
Ray Bradbury
…to not let the injustice of what could have been, override all the joy of what was.
Jack Rooke
Turning away from a flight from death, you see a horizon of opportunity that puts you in a state of anticipatory resoluteness with solicitous regard for others that makes your life seem like an adventure perfused with unshakeable joy.
Heidegger, Martin
“If you could stop the shouting of your own voice in your ears, you might be able to hear the small voice of… a pine cone in the sun.”
– Minor White (via David Ward)
“These people have learned not from books, but in the fields, in the wood, on the river bank. Their teachers have been the birds themselves, when they sang to them, the sun when it left a glow of crimson behind it at setting, the very trees, and wild herbs.”
Anton Chekhov
We all have just one story to tell, and we tell it a thousand ways.
Sally Mann paraphrasing Elizabeth Strout
‘You will have only one story,’ she had said. ‘You’ll write your one story many ways. Don’t ever worry about story. You have only one.’
Elizabeth Strout, from My Name is Lucy Barton
I will put my ship in order
And I will set her on the sea
And I will sail to yonder harbor
To see if my love minds on me
I drew my ship into the harbor
I drew her up where my true love lay
I drew her close up to the window
To listen what my true love did say
“Oh who is that at my bower window?
That raps so loudly and would be in?”
“It is your true love that loves you dearly
So rise, dear love, and let him in”
Then slowly, slowly rose she up
And slowly, slowly came she down
But before she had the door unlocked
Her true love had both come and gone
“Come back, come back, my own true love
Come back, come back, come to my side
I never grieved you nor yet deceived you
And I will surely be your bride”
“The fish shall fly, the seas run dry, love
The rocks shall melt with the sun
The laboring men shall forget their labor
Before that I return again”
Do something meaningful with your pain.

“All around us, the world, and we, in its midst, blind.”
– Michael Haneke, from the movie Happy End